I just want to say that one thing needs commenting...the grass is greener thing. The difference, I believe, is that the person who is RUNNING is different from the LBS. The grass probably IS greener for the LBS since ..or should I say seems greener....after leaving the destructive M or being left behind.
RMG...I am thankful that you have posted here on Jeff's thread. Jeff and I talk frequently, and, like you, we believe that NO ONE should abandon a marriage at the outset. However, there comes a time when must move on. Like your posts above, I....we....tried so hard to save our M's...DB'd...etc. One just can't do this alone. I feel like I am in the minority here....having come to save my M and then being the filer. I swore I would never destroy my M....it's just that my W was much better at doing that.
frank_d said to me once 'you'll be OK'. Seems you already are. Blessings. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
