Originally Posted By: Jeff223
We need to get our minds around this if were are to heal.


Jeff223,

The thing I have to come to grips with is my WAW made her decision.... Showed her true colors....

The comforting thing is God has provided a new life for me with a woman who has a heart of gold and has been the one left twice before... She gets it..... My new wife knows how to communicate her wants and needs.... I sleep well at night with my new wife... I have a clear conscience knowing I did all I could with the WAW sitch...

My WAW lives in a box of a Brady Bunch 70's house near her work... In a neighborhood surrounded by things she said hated like RV trailers parked in the driveways... Most of the time, I know her pride is alive and well telling her she did the right thing.....

Yet, I would bet at times she is tormented by questions of what it could have been like........ What if she had stayed? Would our relationship improve that much? Did he really love me THAT much? What would the house have looked like if we had remodeled it as he did with his new wife? Could I really have been happy with him? Questions like those she will NEVER be able to put to rest......... I had to deal with intense pain. She will live with the regret.............

Take Care,

RMG

Last edited by RMG; 02/07/08 08:15 PM.
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