My life is crashing in on me. My W left

[ms ladybug]

Well, Welcome to DB. I know how hard it is to be here. I know how much you're hurting, we all do. It's great that you ordered the books. I recommend you read Divorce Remedy ASAP. You are setting yourself up for failure the way you're doing things now. She said she needs space...you give it to her. Do NOT get mushy on her right now...she REALLY doesn't want that. What she wants to see is that you CAN be OK without her (and really, you CAN). You need to show her that you are just fine. You need to show her that you have a life that doesn't revolve around her, and you need to DO that life.

All I can say is don't move, or talk to her until you read the book, because you're pushing her away.

Also, just a side note...you said that you tried to show her your love by buying her things, gifts, cards, etc... I'm guessing your love language is receiving gifts. Is that HER love language. I reccommend you also read the book the 5 Love Languages, figure out HER love language, and speak it.

Anyways, welcome. We know you're hurt, and we will help as able.