We thank each other alot more for things, something we never did! we tell each that we appreciate what the other has done. Sometimes I wonder if it seems fake, but it doesn't, because we got to the bad places by taking each other forgranted, and now we appreciate each other. And that is so important! A marriage takes work! and that now what we are truly doing!!
My h also made a comment, how he is really suprised how we have stuck to the retrouvaille, normally we would be gung ho for something to begin with, but eventually just stop, but with this we have really committed to it! we don't dialogue every night, but we still at least 3 times a week!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
