Lanzo, I'm not sure where the breakdown is. Does she intend to stay awake and then falls asleep? Is she aware that your expectation is to spend time with her, and that falling asleep distresses you?
This seems like a solvable problem. Would you be allowed to wake her if she dozed off? Is she expected to stay awake every time you two watch TV together? Does she fall asleep most of the time that you're together quietly or occassionally?
You seem to take her falling asleep personally, though I'm sure it's tied into other issues.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
