Were we married to the same woman? I too knew her for 15 years (dated - I knew her even longer b/c we worked for the same program) and we were married 12 when we divorced. I too NEVER had a EA/PA or abuse. She never mentioned MC and would not go when I recommended it after the bomb. I do have to admit that we discussed some issues but those issues were not grounds for D by any stretch and could have been worked.
She just wanted out. She quit.
I often wondered how she could sit in church week after week. One of her classic responses: she prayed on it and God said it was okay.
Thanks again for this exchange. We need to get our minds around this if were are to heal.
