* D was sick last night, so W and I talked for a while on IM. W basically offered to do anything she could to help D and I, but we were doing okay. W was talking about things she wanted to do to her house, and things she wanted to do to mine - Ceiling fans, decorating, etc. She was pretty much talking like 'we' have two houses, rather than she has a house and I have a house. She invited herself over this weekend to work on my house with me.
* I told her I need to set up my phones at home and get my computer stuff together in the basement - Told me that she'd help me out with it, and that we could share a few things together.
* Her company is hiring for a position which is basically what I do. I didn't tell W, but I talked to the hiring manager about it last week. I wasn't going to say anything unless it got to the point where it was likely I was going to move there and see how she felt about it. Well, I guess someone called her about me today at work and she recommended me for the job and IM'd me and told me I should give them a call. A whole lot of "You'd fit in really well with that group" and "They'll probably offer whatever money you want" from her. It's a big company, so it's not as if we'd be working on the same floor of the building, much less together, but I guess it's something.
So, I guess I'm not sure where I stand. Right now, I feel like we're doing one of those separations where good things actually happen, rather than people pretending they just want to divorce but don't have the balls to file. W is making numerous excuses to spend time with me and hang out, so I'm not complaining at all. Total 180 for her from a month ago, when she'd find reasons to break off things we had scheduled together.
I'm going to ask my W out for dinner & something for her birthday (couple of weeks out) and have D stay with the grandparents over night. Trying to figure out what 'something' is, but I need to think about that. Movie is kind of lame, but there are no good concerts or other activities that we do together happening right now.
Not sure what to get my W for her birthday. I think she might be open to something more personal, but I don't want to push it. I was going to get her a Valentine's Day card from D, but I wasn't going to do anything.
Any ideas what the 'right thing' to do is right now?
