Jenny - it stinks that you have to be going through all this so soon. My H did the key thing and the separation thing within the first month. Talk about fast. Guess what? I'm a Gemini, too. Maybe that's why I sway from one extreme to the next emotionally. I wish that I had the strength NOT to let all of H actions and moods affect me. But, I have a tendency to assume it has something to do with me. And, it is making me NUTS. Maybe that's why I'm not moving forward very quickly. I would love to know how to turn off the negative.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him