glad to hear you from you guys, stuff like this I'll post elsewhere, the rest I'll still post on my thread, just in case... I think most likely it is over with ow, he just can't tell the truth nor come clean, he still wants to leave that R spotless and supposedly he was looking for a "reason" to break it off permanetly (the sex contract) and now that he has it he'll use that to push her for good he said one day. Yea, how noble, doesn't have the b@lls to just say he has a good family to work for. He thinks he can fool me, he gave those docs weird names under another innocent looking folder. Pretty pathetic, he had made a copy of her parking permit too, there was a xmas card he prob meant to give her before I found him out. Oh, and I got to see what I never saw before: separation papers from that year he left. he was really going to screw me over, making me think it was just a formality, the separation papers clearly state that I would forfeit any support from him, that that separation was mutual, etc etc. That info gives me the resolve to make sure I protect myself very well if we end up S/D, that I wont' leave any loopholes nor give in if it will affect my kids and I in any way.
Yep, I'm in for a long haul, this man needs to grow up, in the meantime I will be happy with my kids and stop expecting anything from him.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
