Option 2 restated - I understand this is what you want. I've research it legally, spiritually, and personally. I take our vows very seriously. I cannot give you documents stating otherwise. I too do not want the marriage from the past. You gave me the greatest gift of all, time. I know I was not the best husband I can be. The positive changes in my life gives me the greatest of happiness and new found excitement for the future full of hopes, dreams, and a special life. So, I just do not feel we have any problem that is insurmountable. I cannot commit our souls to eternal damnation. Through sickness and health, richer or poorer, during good times and bad, we saw the worst. We are now poised for the fruits of our troubled times. The greatest happiest and most special of times are at our finger tips.
Probably too much - but after an email like this in a couple weeks or just stating when she brought it up again, I would never hear lawyer talk again and any positive interaction could be thought of in this vain, instead of clinging to a hope that she was changing her mind over some trivial conversation.
