That sounds great. I unwittingly did something good last night. I walked into the bedroom where H was lying on the bed with the TV on, and a commercial for eHarmony was came on. I said, "I could contact those people and they would send me a new husband as easy as ordering a pizza." And he said, "Why don't you?" And I said, "Because I'm too attached to you." So he said, "No, you're not attached. You're all the way over there." And I said, "No, I've been married to you for 28 years, I couldn't imagine wanting another man." Well, it prattled on a little longer, and then I went and took a bath.....and he joined me. And then we had pretty passionate sex.
Before Retrouvaille, I never would have just said something nice like that to him. I would have said something snippy, or self-centered. But after Retrouvaille, saying nice things just comes easier. It does make life better.
