Um, Bomb, I can tell you that being called an emotional creature would not sit well with many of us.
I would say that it's possible she's manipulating, but the ILY is interesting (unless it was said in a way that was like "Oh I love you but I don't know about this). Unless W has a history of manipulation and emtional jerking around, I would say the signs are good for Sleeeper.
Sleeper, be flirtatious!
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D