What do you think about me accepting the separation (obviously I wont be happy, but only accepting). If I tell her its the best way forward, and that I have started looking at places. She has mentioned a coupleof times about wanting to not wear her engagment ring. I could alos take it off her finger as a symbolic gesture that I am finally letting her go (even though I dont want to). I think this will take alot of the pressure from between us, as she doesnt need to feel she has to fight to leave me. I could give her the whole `i love you too much to see you sad so I am letting you go ` speech.
I see this going one of 2 ways: she will get cold feet as she was all talk (not likely I know) or We will move out, as were were more than likely going to anyway, but at least now its on my terms.
Is this a good or bad idea? Is it something to do any time or is it a last resort? Anyone out there who has done this?
Cheers Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
