Kiki - Only settle if you can truly afford to live without the $300. If it is going to have any kind of major impact on your wellbeing or the wellbeing of your family then don't settle. You didn't ask for any of this to be forced on you. This is strictly a business transaction - emotion can not come into it. Sticking to your guns may or may not push your husband to back away from you but that doesn't mean it would be permanent.

I'm absolutely NO EXPERT so take what I said with an open mind and examine with your head, not your heart. \:\)


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!