Another new topic! already? Here we go

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Cat, Hijack this thread as much and whenever you like.

I'm loosing any sympathy I had for your H. Let him have his OW and there crazy life. He deserves it. Maybe it's like a drug addict. You can hate the sin and still love the sinner. But in loving the sinner, you don't have to sink with him, or enable him.

I could hide stuff on a computer so you wouldn't find it. It's not that hard. He's not very computer literate, is he?

But!!! You've still got this great adventure/journey to go on! Your life. Learning about yourself, filling your life up, experiencing it, owning it, enjoying it. We are so lucky to be here, on earth, and have this opportunity to see, live, grow. The pains part of it. Face it with a positive attitude. Don't forget, even during the pain, to see how beautiful life is, how great your kids are, how the sunset looks. It's all still there, for you.