I have a dilemma…I need advice or opinions. I am not looking for anything to be sugar coated or biased.
I just need honest opinions.
H and I talked yesterday. H wants to settle before we go to trial. Do I? H claims that all he could afford is the offer he gives me and we should settle before trial.
H asked to go eat with them to talk. H said he cannot put any emotion towards this right now because it will confuse him.
H says after the divorce he could just not now. H admitted he has convinced himself that I am his enemy . And until this divorce is over he can not put any emotion in it.
The amount he is offering is 300 les then I would ask for. H thinks at this point I am only out to get him.
By settling it would show him I wasn’t. It would put closure in place. H admitted he does not care for me at all right now due to this process. H is looking out for himself.
H said after our divorce , we could build a bridge to our friendship where we could laugh and hang out afterwards. Honestly, I do not know how I feel about that.
H later grabbed me, picked me up and hugged me. We talked and it was like he didn’t want me to go. I said bye and he said that’s it…
