I think looking at houses is a GREAT idea - I went through a ton - I just needed to feel good about where I was going/what I could afford (I even had a GMAC rep tell me what I could afford to buy on my salary). This helped ease a lot of anxiety for me -it showed me I could live w/o financial support from my H. I always feel knowledge is power - it's when I am in the dark I am most afraid...
Have a great day!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing