Hey, Tom Petty - love that song too. One of my friends sent me a copy when my situation started last year.

I am where you are at the moment. H lost in a fog of MLC, full of self pity, blaming me for all that is wrong in life.

Do i care? Well, yes, deep down I love the man he was. However I cannot fix his problems, only he can do that and he will not drag me and the kids down to his level of misery!!

There comes a time when you need to see some positive steps from the WS even tiny ones would help.


H - 47
Me - 44
DD - 9
DD - 8
DS - 6
Married - 25
Full blown MLC March 2007