Hey, Tom Petty - love that song too. One of my friends sent me a copy when my situation started last year.
I am where you are at the moment. H lost in a fog of MLC, full of self pity, blaming me for all that is wrong in life.
Do i care? Well, yes, deep down I love the man he was. However I cannot fix his problems, only he can do that and he will not drag me and the kids down to his level of misery!!
There comes a time when you need to see some positive steps from the WS even tiny ones would help.
H - 47 Me - 44 DD - 9 DD - 8 DS - 6 Married - 25 Full blown MLC March 2007