No matter what you do it will not be alright. You have to protect yourself financially. If you are entitled to alimony, get it. Don't try to be accomadating financially to try to win him back. In the end it will not work. They will find another way to not like you. PROTECT YOURSELF
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11