B2M,
For what it's worth, everytime my W starts getting close to me, there's a backlash. She looks for something to get angry about, some perceived slight or comment, and blows it out of proportion. My DB coach told me it's a self-protection mechanism. Over the course of the past few weeks, her backlashes have become much less intense.

Anyway, this may or may not be the case with you, but thought I'd throw it in.

Bomb


Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden