Just thought I'd pop by and add another newcomer to the list. My H is MLC too and emotionally AWOL. I have been GAL-ing since last July and am almost looking forward to the time when I can have full control of my life. However, a large part of me still wants to save this M, 25 years is not to be thrown away lightly and whatever H says, there must have been plenty to keep us together as well as bring 3 gorgeous kids into the world!
I'm at the in between stage I think, so detached that I will be OK whatever the outcome but I wonder if it's possible to get so detached you'd really rather be divorced than having to cope with all the cr*p.
H - 47 Me - 44 DD - 9 DD - 8 DS - 6 Married - 25 Full blown MLC March 2007