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Re: Won't Back Down SueS #1349976 02/07/08 12:56 PM
Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 848 J JoieDeVivre Member
JoieDeVivre Member J Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 848	Mark, You took the time to work from home so you be with a sick child, then get blasted? Nice. These WAS look for anything to prove what a bad person/parent you are. Mountains become molehills. You need to get her one of those Don't Sweat the Small Stuff books. There are worse things in life... Sue, is right, lots of kids do that. It certainly does not make you a bad parent. If it makes you feel better, my D did that when she was 3 or 4. The best part was she was at my MILs house at the time! Keep up the PMA. Joie

Re: Won't Back Down JoieDeVivre #1350002 02/07/08 01:36 PM
Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,514 Central Ohio Rob1231 Member
Rob1231 Member Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,514 Central Ohio	Just wait until she is 15 and starts dying bright pink streaks around her forehead! :P Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!

Re: Won't Back Down Rob1231 #1350007 02/07/08 01:43 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US L LuvMyHusband Member
LuvMyHusband Member L Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US	lol. My D8 did that when she was 3. So what, big deal, it will grow back! LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA

Re: Won't Back Down Ohio_Mark #1350013 02/07/08 01:46 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 7 UK M maelstrom Junior Member
maelstrom Junior Member M Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 7 UK	Hey, Tom Petty - love that song too. One of my friends sent me a copy when my situation started last year. I am where you are at the moment. H lost in a fog of MLC, full of self pity, blaming me for all that is wrong in life. Do i care? Well, yes, deep down I love the man he was. However I cannot fix his problems, only he can do that and he will not drag me and the kids down to his level of misery!! There comes a time when you need to see some positive steps from the WS even tiny ones would help. H - 47 Me - 44 DD - 9 DD - 8 DS - 6 Married - 25 Full blown MLC March 2007

Re: Won't Back Down maelstrom #1350017 02/07/08 01:50 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US L LuvMyHusband Member
LuvMyHusband Member L Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US	Agreed Maelstrom. Even baby steps would be encouraging. LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA

Re: Won't Back Down LuvMyHusband #1350188 02/07/08 04:47 PM
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449 O Ohio_Mark OP Member
OP Ohio_Mark Member O Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449	Part II: She took #3 to get her hair cut (this time by a professional). It looks fine now. She continues to be cold and indifferent. I continue to be positive and optimistic. Why not? I'm not having a meltdown. I'm not confused. I'm not crazy. I am in great physical, emotional, and spiritual shape. There are blue skies ahead. I am doing the right thing. And I won't back down. Me: 48 Divorce final May 2010 B: 19 B: 15 G: 9

Re: Won't Back Down Ohio_Mark #1350191 02/07/08 04:52 PM
Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 927 H Hope_11 Member
Hope_11 Member H Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 927	Quote: I continue to be positive and optimistic. Why not? I'm not having a meltdown. I'm not confused. I'm not crazy. I am in great physical, emotional, and spiritual shape. There are blue skies ahead. That's an excellent perspective. M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread "When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."

Re: Won't Back Down Hope_11 #1350193 02/07/08 04:53 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,545 MN - Minneapolis/St. Paul S SueS Member
SueS Member S Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,545 MN - Minneapolis/St. Paul	Good Morning Mark! Well the hair couldn't have been that bad then if it looks okay. Some kids cut it down to the scalp! I agree with Hope. What a great way to look at things! Have a great day! -Sue ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day

Re: Won't Back Down SueS #1350201 02/07/08 04:58 PM
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449 O Ohio_Mark OP Member
OP Ohio_Mark Member O Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,449	Yep, and she leaves tomorrow for a trip to see her father. I get to taste the sweet nectar of life without her. Except I can't date... Me: 48 Divorce final May 2010 B: 19 B: 15 G: 9

Re: Won't Back Down Rob1231 #1350229 02/07/08 05:24 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 6,274 England, UK S saffie Member
saffie Member S Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 6,274 England, UK	Quote: Just wait until she is 15 and starts dying bright pink streaks around her forehead! :P And piercing things that shouldn't be pierced!!!!! Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength

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