What now? MLC Doldrums.

[bright 2 morro]

Hi
I am so sorry to read this. But I thought it might help that this may be pretty normal for MLC.

My H pretty much did the same thing. He was involved in affair for a few months and moved out. Came home but did not cut off contact with OW (or so I suspect now). Said he did but I do not think he did and questioned it at the time as well. He was home for 4 months and never once moved back into the bedroom. He moved out again in October and it was bad for 3 months then we got along great for January. Now he is very mean and distant again.

Unfortunatly, I think you are going through the same thing as most. If his actions are all about him then it is pretty normal. The one thing I see right now is that if my H does not get things his way he becomes mean and threatens and blames me.

Here is a good example. For Xmas the kids got him a portable dvd player for the car it broke a week after xmas. I brought it back and got him a better more expensive one. He thought it was great. The kids got me a printer for xmas. It did not work, he took it back and has yet to replace it. Instead he bought himself a new laptop. When I would not agree to less childsupport for him he has been mean and nasty. All about him.

I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. It is the hardest thing to go through.

Best wishes and you will be in my prayers.

B2M