Thanks for dropping by! The presentation went really well, the group was impressed with it! We did it on building a good relationship, we both like the article we found to base it on, because it talked about needing to change and grow, how the person we are with is what we need in our life right now to help us change and grow. Also it spoke about how we have to separate our partners behaviours from who they are. How we will love each other always, but we don't like what they are doing(in general terms) and in being able to do that we are able to start along the road to unconditional love. I think that at some point we will tell our story, I could do it now, but I don't think H is ready for that yet. So I will not push him. Our core leaders said that it took them 2 years before they could. H said that he really enjoyed working on this with me, that he really felt that we have turned a corner by doing it! So I think in getting a couple of these under our belt H may feel better able to tell our story! I am so thankful for the retrouvaille program, without I do believe we would definately not be together now. This board and that program are the best things to have happened to me!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
