Thanks for visiting. This may seem like a HUGE mountain to climb; however, develop a strategy. Situations can change for the better. Yes, go dark for a season. It may be difficult, but show the giant within! Remember, divorce is a *lifetime*.
You mentioned that counseling helped you. Keep in mind that Michele's staff offers solution-oriented therapy. They focus on solutions, rather than analyzing the past. Please feel free to contact them.
Next, I ask, what would be positive steps for his return?Implement a strategy, know your goals, and watch for the praise reports. Yes, this includes the baby steps.
I understand how you're feeling. Please do not give up. Visit this site and post whenever needed.