Thank you LN, for taking so much time to post on my thread.
Everything you say is correct about the anger. I am using it 100% to get myself under control, not to exert power over her...I am crazy about her, even after what she's done. And she knows that, so I don't need to tell her again. She sometimes can't believe that I love her as much as I do. I told her I will wait as long as I can, and I think that helps her. She knows that I can move on, and of course I know it too.
Regarding the affair...I have no problem talking to her about it. I am a new, different person. She told me a couple of weeks back "you might not like the new, assertive, confident person I intend to become". I told her, simply "Ditto. Be careful what you wish for". We both laughed, it was a good moment.
Thanks again, LN. Wish I could share a beer with you someday.
