I think it says alot that he didn't even mention OW. After all, if this was the love he swears it is, then wouldn't he be open about it? Wouldn't he be introducing her to his friends? But instead, he doesn't mention her and hits on his friends. Interesting.
*dated at age 12- 15 (me) and age 13-16 (him) *reunited at age 19 (me) and age 20 (him) *me 23, H 25 *married 3 1/2 years, 1 d *dropped ILYBINILWY bomb on 12/19/07 *moved out same day, PA with OW confirmed
But instead, he doesn't mention her and hits on his friends. Interesting. ======================================= Indeed, that goes to show you how much of an escape goat the ow is, the bandaid, the crutch to his insecurities, his ego stroker
Right now, he is not someone who deserves to have me in his life as long as he acts like this. ================================================= Funny you say this, just found out some stuff about my H that makes me feel the very same way, glad his lying butt isn't here to lie to my face. You are 110% right, spineless men like those don't deserve us. It just made it easier for me to detach (I was alredy feeling stable about this S, he's just reminded me why we are S)
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
H called Friday night, around 11pm. We chatted for about 10 minutes or so, mostly about d3 (who had been sick) and bills. H's weekly paycheck was $130!!! He freakin makes $22.70/hour! He says he'll pay me next week, and apologized alot.
On Saturday morning, I took D3 with me to run some errands. I got back before noon (which was what time H was supposed to pick up d3), and H was waiting for me in the apartment! He was on the phone! I said Hi, and quickly left the room. I pulled some of my clothes out of my drawers, and packed an overnight bag. H asked me if I was going to Vegas (my friend lives there) and I said No. He asks, "Well, where are you going then? To go see your boyfriend?" I said, "I'm not dating anyone." which is true. I was playing the mysterious card. Truth was, I was going over my friend's house and knew we were going to be drinking, so I brought along some clothes, a toothbrush, etc. He was definetly curious, and I would say maybe uncomfortable about it. I was friendly yet distratced the whole time he was here.
It's Sunday today, and I got home around noon from my friend's house. I checked my answer machine and there were 2 hang ups from last night around midnight. Maybe H calling to see if I was home or not? Just a thought.
*dated at age 12- 15 (me) and age 13-16 (him) *reunited at age 19 (me) and age 20 (him) *me 23, H 25 *married 3 1/2 years, 1 d *dropped ILYBINILWY bomb on 12/19/07 *moved out same day, PA with OW confirmed
