HiC, Be cautious in picking something out for your H. It needs to be safe and light, not guilt-provoking. You know best where he is at and what he'd find offensive or guilting. Only get something for him, if you're also getting something for the others. Do you normally get something for the others? If not, I would be careful about starting this. It may come across as insincere and "using" them as an excuse to also get something for your H. Try to picture your H's reaction and theirs.
SInce the S, I never got anything for my H for V-Day or our wedding anniversary or birthday. I only got him something small for Christmas because I got something for the boys, my stepsons. Getting the boys gifts for Christmas/birthday wasn't something new at all.
However, this year I bought some V-Day cards, which I probably won't be giving to him. I just bought them in case I decided to give them or decided to write them out but keep them with me to give him after we reconcile.
