hopeful,
I agree with your idea of not mentioning the finacial thing to him.. I would get him something small and thought provoking for V-day. When I want to give something sentimental and inexpensive, I usually purchase a book and write an inscription in it. (However, the book obviously needs to relate to something that will trigger the thoughtfulness of the gift) The local Barnes and Noble here on the East Coast had some excellent ideas and selections. Like I told Bryan, about V-day, I think we WAW now LBS should give the H's something that will cause them to think.. not mushy, but simply thought provoking. I hope that all goes well for you in the mean time. We all have a rough week ahead of us next week...It's a shame we all don't live close enough for us to get together on V-day..I'm sure that would make it alot easier on all of us!! Take care.

saus


Me 40, live in WAW
H 39
married 9 yrs
seperated 18 months, apart 7 months
D 4, 16
S 6, 19