Helloooo...Smoother Ride....Where Are You???

[Rob1231]

Very good observation, Yoyo! You're right, Sue has SO much more strength to stand strong for her M, while her H is a sick, weak, pathetic person.

Sue, you said:

I see what's going on and reading a few other's sitchs is like looking in a mirror. I get so mad reading about what other H/W's have done. But for me, my heart is having a tough time accepting things.

I wondered what you meant by the last line. Are you thinking "ultimatum time" here? That's how it sounded to me. Please remember that there IS a middle ground between "Shape up or ship out." You can let him do his thing while you keep working on yourself - Time and Patience, right?

Oh, and have a SPECTACULAR birthday - preferably without Lunkhead along to spoil the fun!!!