Update: I worked from home today, as #3 was sick. While I was in a conference call, she found a pair of scissors and cut her own bangs.

When the wife got home, you would have thought it was the end of the flippin world. She went ballistic, hurling very hurtful (and completely irrelevant) insults at me. I left the house....and when I got home five hours later, she was icy. She isn't speaking to me (the worst father in the state....).

You know, I get the whole "alien" thing. However, she's making it real easy for me to detach. As things stand now, I want nothing to do with her. I want her out of my life. Now.

And, to you, my dear DB friends... please, spare me the "I am so sorry..." replies. Your concern is appreciated and duly noted. Thanks, but no thanks. Be sorry that I am still married to her... not that she's driving me away...


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9