Wow, just took a blow to the gut... W sent an email that just takes the wind out of me. I can't believe it. Here's what she wrote:
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NCB, Ever since your episode of slamming doors & yelling & pointing your finger in my mom's face & blaming her for our breakup S7 has been very upset. We asked him what was bothering him & he said a lot of thing. He said Daddy said: "MIL broke up 3 marriages & she's Mommy's cheerleader & she whispers things in Mommy's ears......" These are your hateful words spewing from your son's mouth. Also he built the Mack lego truck & put a satellite dish on it & said "Daddy would hate this" "He hates satellite" He hates Diego too...." I had to explain to him that all this hatefulness is a big part of why I can't live with Daddy" I want our house to be full of love & peace. S7 is smart. He sees & feels the difference. He & S3 both noticed that you hate a stuffed bear just because his name is OM. It's from a book. OM is my friend & co-worker. He is not a part of the kids life. I don't think I can trust anyone again. So I have no intention to remarry. Whether you believe that or not is irrelevant, but you should not poison the kids brain against me, their grandmother, the name "OM", Hispanics, satellite dishes, people who use pc's, liberals........the list of things you hate is very long & S7 can name them all. Last time I checked Jesus was all about love........ Your hatefulness preceded my mom, she's just helping to make sure the kids have a stable loving caregiver while I make sure they have a roof over their head & food to eat & all the love they need. If Mom wasn't here I would utilize the YMCA just like a bunch of other parents. S7 has actually expressed an interest in that service. It's more expensive but doable. Thanks, WAW
I am flabbergasted and continue to be amazed at how horrible a person my W and MIL make me out to be. Now I am a racist? Now I am a hate-filled person and a bigot? (All I've ever said is that I disprove of some of the things her mother allows our kids to watch on TV, that's it.)
How do you answer something so insane? Accusations so off-the-wall as to be in the Twilight Zone?
I am really, really worried about my sons even more now.
