Thanks sgct...I've been at this so long...with nothing. IMO, the M is dead. I've always said that I would leave the door open a crack. I have continued to try and give my W opportunities to open lines of communication. My W would have to make major changes..perhaps even move mountains, but, I wouldn't do anything else here that even FH would do....I would listen. A lot of listening...and then listen some more. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;