You are right, I can't make her come to a decision, but for me, right now anyway, that is a decsion. She can be in limbo, but I am ready to be out of it! So, if she wants to be in limbo, I am ready for her to do it without me!
That sounds pretty harsh, and maybe it is, but time hasn't helped, if anything things are getting slowly worse.
I have never done anything like this before, it is going to be really hard, but I think it needs to be done.
