Thanks Jenny. It means a lot to me to know that you're out there thinking of me. I know that I'm not alone as I have friends and family, but I still feel really alone after last night. Knowing that there are people here that care about me helps with that.
She asked me to give her advice as a friend last night about her decisions that she's making. I told her that I would give her the same advice that I gave one of my other friends that is going through a divorce. I think that you have to fight for your M. Then she asked me even if that meant that you might not ever be happy again. I replied that I believe in the commitment that I made and that being happy has to come from with in and that you share that in a M. Not the other way around in that you need a R to make you feel happy. Probably not the most DB of answers, but she wanted my opinion on it. I hold the sanctity of marriage in high regard and I am fiercely loyal once I make a commitment to someone.
I agree with that I have to support her the best that I can. It's not like I can stop her anyways. If I try to stand in her way she'll just rebel against me more.
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As with my H...they feel as though they've missed out on something and we're the cause of all their misery. The best thing we can do is get out of their way so they can realize...IT ISN'T US!!
I agree completely...
-B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
