He says that he hasn't been happy, that he's miserable being away from us. But I also think he's afraid of coming home to the same ol' R and me.
The exact same words my H has used. Many, many times.
Originally Posted By: LuvMyHusband
So not only do I need to take care of me while he's here but I need to show him that I have made changes.
I couldn't agree more. I wasn't saying that you should be entirely away, because it would definitely be good for H to see those changes. Just try not to be around the whole time. Give him time and space.
Hope all goes well with his doctor appt and also with his upcoming visit.
Good luck.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
