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Sara #1348877 02/06/08 05:54 AM
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I hadn't worn my wedding ring in about 4 years. I took it off mainly because I had worn it for over 20 years, and just wanted a new piece of jewelry. Clearly with me, 20 years, one piece of jewelry is a record. It's yellow gold, and white gold was in. And I have another ring that is white gold that my H gave me for our 20 anniversary, so I felt that still symbolized the marriage, even though no one else would recognize it. While I wore other rings I gained weight, and the wedding ring no longer fit. So then I couldn't wear it and I kept saying I would bring it to a jeweler to be made larger, but I haven't done that yet. Anyway, a few days ago I tried it on, and it fit. Tight, but it fit. So I've been wearing it for about 5 days now. Except right now, I just pried it off; it's too tight again. Anyway, the whole point of all this is that I don't think my husband noticed at all that I wore it again. So I guess I'll go back to rings that fit. At least until I get this made larger, or lose weight. Which do you think is going to come first?

Sara #1349577 02/06/08 11:32 PM
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Not to sound pretentious or anything, but I sooo miss wearing my wedding ring. H noticed every time I did not. It's platinum w/a 1.5 carot diamond. I love it and I miss it..

Is it bad to miss your jewelry and not your H??

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No, it makes perfect sense. You can have the stone reset into something you would feel more comfortable wearing, like a pendant. I would have trouble not wearing a ring as special as that one. I don't like to be parted from my favorite jewelry.

Sara #1349608 02/07/08 12:06 AM
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But until you wear it again, I hope you are keeping in a bank vault. That is not a ring to keep lying around the house.

Sara #1349656 02/07/08 12:51 AM
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.. insured.. ;\)

lovelyolive #1350262 02/07/08 05:47 PM
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My H is such a cheap skate....I never got an engagement ring


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength
Sara #1350725 02/08/08 01:23 AM
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Originally Posted By: Sara
You can have the stone reset into something you would feel more comfortable wearing, like a pendant.

I was wondering about a ring I got for my 25th.....if I should/could wear it on my right hand. It might not be a happy thing, though, so thought of just saving it for D17. Hadn't thought about having it reset. Thanks for the idea (although since it's a heart shaped diamond not sure if it would like right made into something else).

Yoyo, how are you?

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Maybe make them into shulls and crossbones. LOL.

No offense intended.

BoB ;\)

bobelina #1350793 02/08/08 03:09 AM
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I love a heart shaped diamond solitaire as a pendant on a short chain so it sits right in the little v at the top of your chest. I've always wanted one of those.

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Originally Posted By: bobelina
Maybe make them into shulls and crossbones. LOL.

No offense intended.

BoB ;\)


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