My situation is still sort of stuck in the mud.

W filed for divorce back in November, but we haven't taken one concrete step in splitting. We don't have temporary orders for custody or for income sharing. We don't have a plan for splitting assets. She keeps asking for things that are ridiculous, like 70% of our liquid assets.

If she wanted a divorce so badly, with all it entails, I feel like she'd be pushing forward on it with concrete steps. I'm not saying she doesn't want a divorce. I think right now she does. But she doesn't want all it entails. The moving part. The get-a-job part. The drop-in-lifestyle part. The my-husband-is-no-longer-around-to-blame-for-everything part.

She is preparing our house for sale. That's a big step. But preparing it for sale and selling it and moving are 2 different things.
She doesn't have a job.


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....