I love you guys....because you care...and you're willing to keep an open mind.
A strategy that includes filing for divorce does NOT fall in line with that.
FIB-- I didn't make it clear (sometimes I'm too brief)---I really didn't think this was your strategy....I just felt you were getting advice that this could/should be a strategy for you. I will never fault you for filing. I am divorced myself. Long before DB, from an abuser. I KNOW how painful divorce is. I know firsthand how hard it is on children, even if necessary. My kids are 20 and 15. They were 7 and 2 at the time. They still suffer the fallout.
He's trying to move on with his life. He's trying to accept the fact that his wife doesn't care and won't try, has cheated on him numerous times, and he's just trying to find peace by moving on with his life.
I'm not sure why that's so terrible.
Seems incredibly healthy to me
Peace is good. It may be the right thing.
Last edited by sgctxok; 02/06/0811:04 PM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
