I think how you are planning to phrase it as "I like when you...." I need to start phrasing things in a positive manner. I too need to work on the trust, you will see why in my post. Good news on the leg cuddles. It is something.
Reading about the text the OW sent in the past makes me wonder how much of the contact between H and EAs is started by them. H always has his phone w/ him. Heaven forbid H miss contact from them. Did your H get rid of the secret phone?
