Hey Jeff, Maybe the word "controlling" was a little extreme, but I was just trying to get across that you can't "make" her come to a decision. She may be in limbo land right now, but I think it's perfectly OK for you to tell her that you're not OK with the way things are right now. Gee, that's what I did in our last JC session. Our next one is tomorrow. Who knows what will come out of my mouth tomorrow?
