Peacetoday,
Thanks for posting to me and giving me that great advice. I was also told about alanon by both the councelors I went to see last summer when My H left the 1st time. I never looked into it though because My H returned about a week after I started Counceling. My H came back to me and had his drinking under control somewhat(or at least it seemed so)for a few months. Then when he started getting more serious about his new business, he started to drink almost a case a day again in Nov and Dec. Now he is gone for the 2nd time and I figure that I should probably look into alanon more seriously this time. Thank You for the reminder. Have you ever been to one of their meetings?
TIPPER