(((HUGS))) lwb, your h really does act like a cornered animal sometimes, doesn't he? its like he lashes out at you, just spews at you such venom. and honestly I'd say underneath its what he feels about himself, he just can't direct it at himself, so he sends it your way. not cool for you. not fair at all. but damn, woman, you are awesome.
stay strong. I know this is a rotten moment, but who knows what is around the next corner.
the good thing is that YOU are taking care of you. you aren't sitting back, but at the same time, this is his thing, let him do his part. but you have seen to protecting yourself and your girls, and that is cruicial. no matter what, i know you will be okay.
as for ow and her h, well, I wish them luck. she is sooo messed up, I think its going to take a lot of work on their part if they really are going to make a go of it. letting go of you is probably a good thing for their recovery, but at the same time, I'm guessing if he suspects something again he'll likely break that rule.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
