I haven't seen anything quite like this. Hugs, kisses, ILY? If it weren't for the last, I'd figure she just thought she wanted friendship. Is this friends hug, kiss, and ILY...or married couple?
My only thought, as always, is that she won't leap the final hurdle to you until the fantasy of OM is completely gone. Until then, I guess you do what you are doing. How long you continue to be the guy that she plays family with while she pines away? I think you'll just have to be patient. I would suggest that you settle into your house, enjoy it, and try not spending every waking minute with her. While she's enjoying you as her security blanket, what have you learned about your own independence? It might be nice to take some breaks from her.
Good luck Brit.
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