I understand where you are coming from...and know the conflicting emotions you must be feeling with taking such a step. I sincerely hope you get the answer you want and are prepared to face what lies ahead no matter the outcome!
Best wishes
Hugs!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally