Recognized a pattern, don't know if I like it.

[sleeper]

Thanks Bomb,

Yea, the follow through on the D thing is interesting, but may or may not mean much. She filed when she was in anger stage. The only times she has brought it up last couple of months was when she was short of money, somehow thinks that will solve those problems for her.

She has said a couple of times over past year she feels she needs to be alone, unattached to anyone to "heal". Next time she mentions that I'm ready to respond with, "What about OM, are you going to detatch from him, too"? I already have her pat response memorized, "You trying to be a smarta**?" Maybe I won't ask afterall.

As far as our Ws still loving us, that's a blessing in disquise as a part of me thinks, "Then what the problem here"? And on another level it's a comformation that something ain't right with them and they got some issues (MLC) going on.

She just called (second time today). It's bill paying time and some of the bills come to my place, some to hers. She says she needs some info on the house figures from me.

Was it just an excuse to call as she doesn't need this info to simply pay the mortgage?

Or is she collecting info for her lawyer?

Maybe I'll swing by her place and kiss her on the mouth, her reaction will answer both questions.