LWB, Your husband is also very insecure and childish, isn't he?
I know how hard it is to feel like you are an empty shell, but I know that you are strong and you will be there for your daughters. That's what keeps us going, isn't it? By the way I hope your DD feels better soon.
I can totally understand the OW's H "breaking up" with you because his wife didn't like it. My H got furious when he found out that the OW's H had been calling me. He said we were conspiring together and that he was manipulating me. I said, "And you don't think you were manipulated by the OW? I can't believe you just said that." His reply as "No one manipulated me."
It's amazing that they destroyed the most precious bond of all, marriage and family, but we are the "bad" people.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon