Kind of reading your sitch and I have to agree with the above posters. The Peace Corps sounds like a bunch of whooey. Do you know how hard it is to get in the Peace Corps? Also, I think saying it is over is really way to control the situation. It is a way for her to be free to do what she wants without guilt. When she is ready to be done she will file papers and until that happens I would say give her the space. Back up a bit and let all this sink in. Try and go dark for at least a few days. Stop letting her think she can count on you as her rock. Let her exploe other M. I know it is paiful, but you have to set her free to find her way back to you. I would say don't panic. Thins in her actions say she still cares. This is a hiccup. You have been here before. Lick your wounds and keep moving.
