Sue,
He doesn't realize it, and I'm not sure that you realize it, but you are a much stronger person. He needs you, you do not need him. Let him know this, take action. He needs to see the consequences. I know this will be difficult, but he needs tough love right now. You do not deserve such disrespect. Your daughter does not deserve to have this in her life. Take care of yourself and you precious DD. If you haven't already read "Love Must Be Tough" by James Dobson, I think you need to. Read the book before you decide what to do. It may be the right thing for you to do, it may not. Only you will know, but I think it is definitely an option.

Hugs,




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon