Originally Posted By: lwb
He is accusing me of dragging my heels with this D, denying its going to happen, not doing anything. I pointed out what I have been doing and H couldn't name one thing he is doing. He admits he is totally messed up right now, but isn't backing down from the D. He actually said I am getting my punishment (an unwanted D) for being a bad wife.


lwb-

Sweetie, I'm so sorry. You did say that our H's are too similiar right?? Yeah, my H has blasted me saying that I won't admit that it's over and that I'm in denial. Um, no I'm not. It hurts like hell, but it's very much reality to me. And who refuses to talk about things unless he's got liquid courage on his side?? Oh yeah, and let's not forget who hasn't told their friends and family about everything? Now's whose in denial and won't admit the truth?

And to tell you that this is punishment? WTF??? That pisses me off. I'll be on the next flight down to St. Louis to kick his a$$. You can text him and tell him that too!! What is his deal?

I hope your D6 is feeling better. Doesn't make things easier when you have a little one who is sick.

Hey, what's the best time to reach you? H works until 9:00 tonight so I'd like to try to call.

BIG HUGE HUGS LWB!!

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day